When “Reactive” Dogs Reveal Their True Selves
“Both of those dogs are reactive,” the trainer told me, gesturing toward two dogs whose behaviors had earned them that…
The Handler’s Role – Your Nervous System Is the Foundation for Relaxation
A lot of dog training is about finding ways to communicate to the dog what you want them to learn….
Equipment Dependence: When Tools Replace Relationship
Walk through any park and you’ll see an equipment showcase: prong collars, front-clip harnesses, head halters, treat pouches, and retractable…
Choice vs. Command – Why Real Relaxation Can’t Be Forced
One key reason I developed Really Real Relaxation is that I got angry watching a trainer teach a dog to…
The Social Heart of Really Real Relaxation: Why Your State Matters Most
Here’s something that might surprise you: Really Real Relaxation (RRR) isn’t something you create for your dog—it’s something you share…
The Connection Problem: When Dogs Know But Won’t Listen
“My dog knows what I’m asking, but he just won’t listen.” This frustration echoes through every training facility as handlers…
Are You Training or Managing? Know the Difference!
Ever had that moment when your dog completely ignores you because he’s spotted a squirrel? Or maybe your Golden Retriever…
The Mixing Board Approach to Distraction Training
Mastering the Three Variables of Distraction Training Think of a sound engineer at a concert, fingers dancing across a mixing…
When VAN Takes Over
Understanding the Brain’s “Circuit Breaker” for Attention Picture this scenario: Your dog is performing a beautiful, focused heel in training…
Horses & Dogs as Teaching Partners: A Revolutionary View
Unrecognized Partnership Note: While this blog references an article about horses and riding instruction, there are important parallels that can…
